Thursday, December 8, 2011

Southern Living Should Hire Me--Seriously...

So I'm thinking of sending these pictures to Southern Living. I'm not going to brag or anything, but I think I do a great job decorating trees and possibly a better job than the people who currently are decorating for them and maybe they'd like to hire me???

Decorating trees was a talent that I didn't know I had until I got married. Up until then, I let my mom do the decorating. I had absolutely no interest in putting ornaments or ribbon on a tree and frankly I didn't understand why so many people, namely my mother-in-law, got their panties in a wad about Christmas decorations and Christmas trees in the first place.

But then I got a tree of my very own... with decorations of my very own and of my choosing. And a new addiction was born.

This year our house looks like a damned florist showroom. Two full-sized live trees are in our living room and foyer and the cheap white artificial tree from the Dollar General is greeting our backdoor guests in the back entry. For a while there I thought that my house along with myself would be permanently covered in glitter and I began to understand why back in 2001 my mother banned glitter from my possession and threatened to cut me off financially if I ever dared bring that crap back into her house. Glitter is everywhere... I literally found it in my Kleenex after blowing my nose--you know you look at your snot too.

Regardless, before you view these pictures, keep a couple things in mind. Mainly, we have not been in the dream house for long... so don't expect architectural digest quality furnishings. Currently we've decorated in the style of "early attic" and over the coming months and years that will change.

Secondly, please remember that I'm not a photographer, regardless of how well I did in a black and white photography class in undergrad. These were taken with my point and shoot Cannon after a very long day at work so bare with me...

Finally, keep in mind that my decorating style for the interior of my house is somewhere between modern-contemporary and traditional and I believe, firmly, that less is more-- except when it comes to my Christmas trees. I believe in excess... over-the-top, jammed-packed-full of spirited goodness when it comes to my trees. And if you want to argue the point with me that too-full trees are just too much, please let me point out that having a tree in your house is an already out-there concept so why not just dive in and go crazy. This is the one time of year when more is completely acceptable!

Enjoy...

The Memory Tree
The big tree in the foyer is my stab at traditional red and green Christmas. I like to think of this tree as our memory tree. Each year I add a new framed picture to our tree of our Christmas card (this year makes 5 married Christmas' together) and each year I add a new Radko ornament that my grandmother gives us as a present from the year before. I also use burlap on my tree as a homage to our livelihood--tobacco farming. My tree skirt is an actual tobacco sheet-- and reminds me of when I was little sheeting tobacco on my daddy's farm with my whole family. Husband still grows tobacco and I love how I was able to incorporate our background and culture into this tree.

Please excuse the bare walls. After Christmas I plan on having a metallic wallpaper hung to tie in the metallic paint in the dinning room in with the rest of the house.


The Safari Tree in the Living Room
Last year I knew, even though we had not started building yet, that I wanted to do blue and browns in my living room. And so last year at an after-Christmas sale at Dewayne's I stocked up on blue, gold and brown ornaments. This tree is the "Safari" tree because I have all sorts of subtle animal references throughout. The ribbon is a mix of gold and glittery cheetah print & velvet-y brown and cream zebra print. Pheasant feathers and blue rooster feathers are throughout and tucked into branches are balls covered in pheasant and peacock feathers. The colors go great with what little decor I have. You'll notice some burgundy chairs peaking in my pictures-- don't worry they will be blue, green and brown stripes soon!

For this particular tree I did not use a topper. Instead I used feathers, artificial brown hydrangeas and loops of ribbon to create the illusion of a tree topper.

The Naughty Tree
This tree was purchased at a Dollar General 5 years ago for about 30 bucks. It is bare and cheap, but a dream to decorate. Because it is just about hollow I basically dump ornaments of various shapes, sizes and texture into the bald spots and then when I think the the tree can't hold anymore items I start stuffing in more things. Those of you that are super critical will notice that the bottom is barely lit because Christmas lights hate me and burnt out already. But I think the tree still looks good and fun.

You'll notice that for all of my tree skirts I've swaddled some sort of fabric around each base or trunk. I simply go to the local fabric store and purchase about two yards of a good quality fabric that will compliment my decorations. I prefer this method of dressing my tree trunk for two reasons-- no sewing and it adds to the lushness of my decorations I hope that you enjoyed my trees.

Maybe I'll get some more pictures in the days and weeks to come. I hope you are enjoying your Christmas decorating... for now I've got to start working on Christmas Cards!


Merry! Merry! Everyone!

Friday, December 2, 2011

Wait for it...

I'm anxiously awaiting my period to start.  Having been prescribed Provera to bring on a period and nothing happening south of the border, I'm a little worried.  I've read online that it can take some time... like anywhere between 7 to 14 days.  And even though I'm well within that 14 day window, I'm ready to get this period going. 

I had a little fantasy that we'd be back in the RE's office doing our last-ditch-effort-before-IVF-cycle right around Thanksgiving and that we'd be looking at our first postive pregnancy test just in time for Christmas.  Talk about a great Christmas present!  But my body, as always, is doing it's own thing.

And it probably is for the best-- I've been super busy at work.  I even had to cancel a much needed acupunture appointment because of all the maddness... at least for this last week I've had no time for early morning RE probes and blood draws.

But speaking of blood drawing... I had a sort of physical yesterday at home.  A few days ago the Husband and I decided it was time for me to get more life insurance, so the insurance company sent this cute little lady out to draw my blood, ask one hundred probing questions, and make me pee in a cup.  Just when I thought my veins would be safe for at least a few more days, there she was with her little butterfly needles and blood viles. 

Yuck.  But I'm anxious to see if everything checks out.  I was shocked to see that my weight has dipped considerably more than I thought it had.  Eating healthy has really paid off.  All the happy weight I gained over the last four years has been shed and for the first time since I can remember I don't complain of feeling so bad all the time... and my size 00 fit again.

Who would have thunk it?

Regardless, I'm sure that in the next couple of days my sometimes-monthly-friend will come back into my life and my regular visits with the RE and his probe will resume.  For now I'm appreciating God's plan for my life and taking things one day at a time.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

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Monday, November 14, 2011

Here Comes the Holidays...

I'm so excited about the Holidays and with Thanksgiving being tomorrow(!) that means only one thing... The holidays are here!

I don't know when it happened, but suddenly Thanksgiving has became the gateway to the Christmas Season.  Black Friday gets more press than Thanksgiving... and at this rate, many of you are already preparing to cut short spending time with your family to start grabbing up gifts as deeply discounted prices.  After-Thanksgiving-Shopping has became as much a tradition as the Thanksgiving meal itself.

I'm not much of a shopper.  Don't get me wrong, I love shopping, but I'm not into big crowds or fighting for deals... I love to save money, but getting up at 12am to get a 42 inch flat screen TV for 200 bucks isn't high on my priority list.

The Husband and I have came up with some holiday traditions of our own over the 4 years that we've been married.  We don't have children yet, and once we do I'm sure that some of our traditions will change.  We may swap out watching National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation for something a little more kid friendly, although I'd really hate to see that change.  I can't say that once we do have children that I won't be tempted into getting up early on Black Friday to make sure that my special little one gets the new hot toy on Christmas morning.  But for now the Husband and I have our routines and tradition pretty well mapped out.

Tonight we are going to celebrate with my family.  My mom is cooking up a fabulous meal.  My sister and I have made desserts--- my famous cheesecake and her flour less chocolate cake that her husband loves.  I'm so looking forward to hanging out and relaxing with my family!  Tomorrow I'm sure we'll end up at lunch eating with the Husband's family.  His grandfather is very sick, still, so I'm not sure what the holidays are going to look like exactly.  We may be eating Turkey subs or something similar in the hospital, but at least we will be together.  Thanksgiving afternoon will be spent with my dad's people... my grandmother and aunts and uncles and crazy cousins.  It will be great and loud and chaotic!

But Thanksgiving night is always spent watching our favorite Christmas movies and cuddling up on the couch.  We drag out the Christmas decorations and start getting things ready.  Working for the school system gives me 3 days without work.  So when everyone else is out shopping I'm sitting at home decorating... making my home ready. 

This year is going to be different.  We are in the dream house now.  I'm sure that in years to come things will be much more complete, but this year we are going to enjoy what we have and make it work!  I'm excited for what is to come and I'm so thankful for every blessing that has been rained down into our lives! 

This year I don't want to get caught up in all the hoopla of the holidays.  I want to take time to appreciate those that matter and enjoy all the good things that this season brings.  I hope that you have someone special to spend the holidays with...  that you have friends and family to round up!  Thanksgiving only comes once a year, but we can be thankful every day...

Happy Thanksgiving Y'all!

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

This kid...

Monday I took the day from work to meet with my regular RE.  The appointment was scheduled to last for less than 30 minutes, but I was sort of worried about how I'd react to the "whatever" he suggested we do next on this infertility journey we are currently on, so I took the entire day from work.  It was just bonus that I happen to be sick and could lay around the house for another day.

My doctor wants to keep things like they are for at least one more cycle and if this cycle doesn't work- then we go forward with IVF.  Seems fair, considering that all our tests are normal and everything is in working order.  The doctor actually said it looks like we've just had some bad luck.  Not to mention all the stress-- my sister's killer wedding, Husband's grandfather getting deathly sick, my grandmother getting sick and entering the assisted living facility, our jobs, building the dream house...

Regardless my husband knows how to make me laugh... on the way out of the RE's office, while driving to McDonald's for a late breakfast he looked at me and said, "this kid better cure cancer."  I cracked up picturing in my head the little oneise I'd have printed with that slogan on it. 

It was the perfect end to a not so horrible meeting with my super talented RE.

Monday, November 7, 2011

Sick...

Friday morning a blinding light flooded into my bedroom.  I awoke.  Angry and confused I looked over at the Husband who had just flopped back into bed.  What is the bathroom light doing on?  His reply was that it was so dark he couldn't possibly make it the 10 feet or so from the bathroom to the bed without having some sort of light to guide the journey.  Are you going to leave it on?  He was was.  What did it matter anyway, it was only a "little light." 

Sure.

As I got out of my perfectly warm bed to turn off the "little light" and walk, in the complete darkness, back to bed (safely I might add) I realized that I was getting sick.  I had all the symptoms-- the stuffy nose, the sore throat, the headache...

Perfect.

Long story short-- I have a cold.  Sunday was the worst.  My entire head hurt-- including the roots of my hair.

I've laid around for two days straight and I'm hoping the rest will have done me some good.  I go back to work tomorrow and I'd hate to be all snotty, spreading germs all over school. 

Monday, October 31, 2011

29 Things to be Happy About...

I turned 29 on the 29th and that got me thinking... a new year, a new attitude, and with plenty of things to look forward to in the coming 365 days

Here's to...
1.  Decorating our new house
2.  Good healthy food
3.  Daily prayer, written in my journal
4.  Business ventures with my friend Olivia
5.  Business ventures with the Husband
6.  Learning to love yard work!
7.  Making time for friends
8.  Professional Wedding Direction
9.  Creative outlets
10.  Organization at work
11.  Organization at home
12.  Acupuncture
13.  Spending time with family
14.  Spending time with the Husband in our new house!
15.  Positive thinking
16.  Learning to say No and meaning it!
17.  Taking time to just enjoy life
18.  Learning to use my new Cricut machine
19.  Saving money
20.  Good conversation
21.  Eating in (increasing my cooking menu)
22.  Exercising
23.  Less stress
24.  Learning to sew
25.  Convincing the Husband to let me plan his 30th birthday party
26.  Planning my Very Scary 30th Birthday party for next year!
27.  Trying new things
28.  Working on a the Baby project 2012
29.  Finding time for the important things!

Sounds like I've got quiet a year ahead of me... I hope that each of you has something special in mind for your year!